The Secret To My Golf Game
by S.G.R.BThere are people who are new to the game of golf, taking it up every day. One of the first things they will do, is find someone who has some experience, and ask for a few tips to help them. The hunt for tips continues throughout your golfing career. I could listen to the old timers for many hours at a time as they explain the way they see and do things on the course. I have added many things from some of their experiences to my own game.
This realization did not come to me right off. It was years before I found it. Before finding it, I tried everything I could read about or be told about. I struggled through with trial and error. I gained a lot of experience. I even went as far as to pay for personal training from an instructor. But I could still feel in my gut that something was missing to my game.
I entered a lot of tournaments, and I faired quite well in some, and I also tanked in a few. But I had determination, which is a quality that all golfers must have. Another of my friends recommended his best golf instruction book which I read and took to heart. And while I learned a few things, I still was not satisfied deep in my gut. I was still searching.
Deep inside, it was like I knew if I ever found what it was, I would be in full swing and on top of my game. I just knew that I would have a newfound confidence that seemed to allude me at this time. If only I could put my finger on the missing ingredient. I purposely played really tough courses, hoping to stumble onto something that would suddenly make my game over. But it was no use.
I had to face the fact that maybe my game was just as good as it would ever be. I had ups and downs and began to feel really stale and losing heart. My level of skill was flat and I had no ideas how to improve. I would stay awake at night with that gut-wrenching feeling, and wonder why I felt I was so close, but could never find it. But it never showed, and I thought I was stuck where I was.
Days passed, and tournaments passed, and still my game was average. I made up my mind I would stop trying to figure it out, and let my mind rest and stop being troubled. I wanted to let go. I went out on my porch one day, and I watched as some children were playing in yard next door. A light came on in my head, and I knew I had found the missing piece to the puzzle. Simple, yet powerful.
While I was watching, the kids were digging around in their yard, and found a pretty little blue marble. They all smiled and wanted to hold it. And as they passed it around, each one closed their hand around it and made a wish. That was it! Since we were children, we have all believed in having a good luck charm. Before I teed off in the tournament the next day, I put my rhodium plated wedding ring to my lips and kissed it. I golfed the best game of my career. Simple, and yet very powerful. Belief was the missing ingredient.